Treat yoself, Nick Carraway.

“No . . . I just remembered that to-day’s my birthday.”

I was thirty. Before me stretched the portentous, menacing road of a new decade.

It was seven o’clock when we got into the coupe with him and started for Long Island. Tom talked incessantly, exulting and laughing, but his voice was as remote from Jordan and me as the foreign clamor on the sidewalk or the tumult of the elevated overhead. Human sympathy has its limits, and we were content to let all their tragic arguments fade with the city lights behind. Thirty — the promise of a decade of loneliness, a thinning list of single men to know, a thinning brief-case of enthusiasm, thinning hair. But there was Jordan beside me, who, unlike Daisy, was too wise ever to carry well-forgotten dreams from age to age. As we passed over the dark bridge her wan face fell lazily against my coat’s shoulder and the formidable stroke of thirty died away with the reassuring pressure of her hand.

So we drove on toward death through the cooling twilight.


I suppose I’m excited for what’s ahead now that I’m 30: a life of tragic optimism, the Sisyphean rolling on of days that promises nothing, always nothing, and my futile, foolish gratitude for the nothing I would never trade for anything.

And so we beat on…



  1. dasfuller

    30 is no big deal. 31 is when it’s a big deal. That’s when you’re officially “thirty-something.”

  2. nmp3102

    My feelings exactly about the arrival of my teenage years, which some people seem to have deemed the “best years” but that society also burdens with stereotypes of angst. Oh well. I guess time is eventually structured so we’re supposed to end up pessimistic (or tragically optimistic) in the end.
    – Nicole


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